I completely agree...

I just want to have a stock noise level and higher more open noise level when i'm in the car vs. my wife...

I certainly don't want to cheapen it ... what I prefer is as high pitch as possible however...
I noticed some exh. co. says they have a lower freq. rumble version vs. high pitch versions of their exhaust like the guys at famous autosport here in so.calif...

tnx for the input everyone....

will check all the videos, etc.